Gentleness and Authenticity heal
perfectionism.
Gentleness and Authenticity heal
perfectionism.
Gentleness is defined as “strength under
control.” Gentleness can also be
understood as meekness and humility. Gentle
fathers do not force their way or demand with a loud voice. This inner ability to harness power is a mark
of humility. Gentle fathers accept their
daughters’ weaknesses. They build their
daughters up in a kind and caring manner.
Where does this capacity to be gentle come
from? Gentleness starts from within. Gentle
fathers are people who have learned to be gentle with themselves. Because they accept their humanness
and inadequacies, they can identify and accept others’ limitations. They can slow down, reflect, and take
care of their bodies, minds, and souls.
Gentle spirit produces gentle behaviors. A gentle attitude feeds gentle relationships.
Authenticity is about being real and
consistent inside-out. When fathers
openly talk about their joys and struggles, their daughters tend to be open
too. Authentic fathers model healthy
emotional expression when they share how they tackle challenges and pray
through uncertain life journeys.
Authentic fathers can say sorry and accept criticisms. They do not have to prove themselves. They can be real and not fear rejection.
Daughters who experience gentle and
authentic parenting will know how to accept, encourage and love themselves and
others. We can bless our daughters with
the gifts of gentleness and authenticity by practicing being gentle and
authentic with ourselves first.
Check out Dr. Brene Brown on "The Gifts of Imperfection"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ck6atQ6xppc
Check out Dr. Brene Brown on "The Gifts of Imperfection"
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ck6atQ6xppc
